12.30.2011

Take a Minute to Remember

I know that everyone's busy preparing for New Year's and such, but let's all take a moment to just remember a person who has impacted many lives. He was such a great hockey player and most importantly, such a wonderful friend. He would have turned seventeen today.

Happy Birthday, Kyle. We're all thinking of you.

-chantalnguyen

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12.28.2011

Happy Holidays

Hope everybody had a very Merry Christmas! Wishing all nothing but the best in the New Year!

12.23.2011

my heart is melting...

I think I've just become absolutely OBSESSED with these guys...just take a look to know exactly what I'm talking about!


le sigh. they're ridiculously incredible.

-chantalnguyen

12.22.2011

Joy To The World

It is now three days until Christmas and my family and I are far from being prepared for it. December really isn’t the happiest time of the year. It’s incredibly stressful and really quite miserable. I mean kids really get into it, but as you get older, there’s not really much you look forward to anymore. All the things you want, you can kind of just purchase for yourself and let’s face it, Christmas break? What break? ADULTS DON’T HAVE ANY BREAKS! The older you get, the more work you get. And the work just never ends. However, everyone was taught the quote, “try to find the light at the end of every tunnel” from when they were young...I guess we all have to at least try to find a little piece of happiness within the depressing holiday season. I can’t really say much about this because you my friend are talking to a depressed person in December. I’m not saying that I’m like The Scrooge or anything...it’s just harder to get me into the spirit of things. If you took a look at my calendar/schedule for this month alone, you’d just pass out. I’m not kidding. I’ve had performances at least once per week ever since December started. Top it off with unexpected errands, my teaching job, my other job and the stress of trying to organize this into all one page. It’s a pain in the ass. But in the mess of it all, I’ve been so happy to get to be spending it with friends, and now I get to spend a little bit of time at home with my family and not go anywhere too far for a good week. I just wish that everybody could see the light in things instead of being so pessimistic all the time. It's Christmas, we all should just at least be kind to one another.

Anyhow, since I have the week off though, I’m now looking ahead into 2012 where I’m just ecstatic to be barrelled down in homework from University, rehearsals, performances, leaving town for my aunt’s birthday, preparing my kids for Alberta Choral-Fest, Jazz Festival and Night of Music’s Honour Choir, learning the accompaniment to those songs and worrying about making enough money to go on tour, which by the way we have four tours from January to June. It’s going to be a tiring and stressful 2012...BUT I CAN'T WAIT!

-chantalnguyen

12.18.2011

Kokopelli Holiday Shindig!

It's about one week before Christmas now and what better way to start the Winter break than to spend it with Kokopelli once again?
Last weekend was our, "Ugly Sweater Dress Rehearsal" PLUS the two WinterSong shows (afternoon and evening) and our last rehearal of 2011 was on Wednesday. It felt ridiculously strange not being at rehearsal on Monday due to it being cancelled for voice-rest.

Friday was our annual Koko Christmas party, hosted by Natalia K! Basically, it was a private little holiday gathering at her house and members all got together, bringing lots of good food, entertainment - we are Kokopelli, so we ARE the entertainment - presents and love all into one house. I brought a platter of mini baked potatos and a bottle of wine as a gift for our beautiful hostess.
We were supposed to start off our evening with food and drinks...but the deal was that before we got to eat, we had to sing. Kind of a good deal I'd say because I'm sure we'd all rather sing than say grace. Plus, it's better to sing when you're not full! We serenaded Natalia's family with, "Stay" with Chad O. half conducting us and Natalia inserting little jokes in between notes. I absolutely love it when people ask us to perform randomly. There's no pressure to sound performance perfect. As long as we have the ability to bring joy to people's hearts, we are all happy to do so!

As I've mentioned before, our night was filled with good food, jokes, laughter, opening presents and music. I'm so happy we all got the chance to enjoy one another's company before our break begins.
I'm still amazed at how a group of people become so significant to your life in such a short amount of time. I realize that now that they are in my life, I could never live without them. All of these people have become so important to me and they have helped shape me into who I am today and I know they will continue to better me for the future. Can't wait for rehearsals to start up again in 2012!

-chantalnguyen

12.14.2011

ACDA Conference in March 2012

It's never too early to be excited to go on tour! Check out the link to see what to expect from the ACDA Conference happening in Seattle in March:

http://www.nwacda.org/conference%20leadin-2012-B.html

Our director Scott, had recently gone to Seattle to plan for the Kokopelli tour in March and just got back a day ago... I have a feeling that it will be a mind blowing weekend for us!

-chantalnguyen

12.13.2011

Only If...

THIS is what I actually want to do with my life:


Such a cute picture I found. "Singing" should definitely be on there...

-chantalnguyen

The Joys of Being in Business

If you've been following me on Twitter or if you're friends with me on FaceBook, you'll know that I'm a PartyLite Gifts Ltd. consultant. When I first decided to be a consultant, I thought that it would just be beneficial to throw around catalogues, get paid to sell things and get discounts on the candles/gifts because I use PartyLite products...a lot. And of course, I got the job because I've been through  business so many times before. So why am I writing this blog? Because I have been UP SINCE 6 IN THE MORNING waiting for Home Office to call me as they said they would. And I am bored.The lesson is: When your company says they'll call you at a certain time in the morning, DON'T listen to them...cause they NEVER will. Just go ahead and sleep in.

I am also locked out of my consultant account. I was supposed to key-in my customer's orders today in order to receive them in time for Christmas... Sorry, that's just never going to happen. Now, I must prepare for a swarm of angry people coming after me with pitch forks and any other form of weapon they may use to tear my face into shreds. I hate business sometimes.

-chantalnguyen

Question? I Have An Answer.

This subject has been pretty much beat to death but I had a conversation about looks (as in good-looking/bad-looking people) with a friend last night that lead to them asking me:
 "Do you still like him though? Surely his weight/looks are not really that important if you really like him?"

I thought about this for a while. Did looks really matter when you like someone? Studies show that it matters, so why not, right? And I'm sure that if the person we were talking about was initially ugly, I don't think I would have even talked to him in the first place. However, this person has been through so much this year which also has an effect on his effort to look...presentable from day to day.

People grow on you and they eventually become your friend. And sometimes they don't. But honestly, once you're even just friends with a person, you don't care how they look anymore. Don't get me wrong, I get extremely worried about my friends if they drop mass amounts of weight or start packing on the pounds...but in that case, you just try to be a good friend and help them through it. My point is that you just love them for who they are and you care about them because you love them. Or you just have a really huge crush on them.

Therefore, my answer to the question is: Yes. I still do like him. I always have and I always will!

-chantalnguyen

12.12.2011

WinterSong 2011

I think we all say this after every single performance. All of us, as in like sixty some people. Do I really need to repeat myself? Probably not. But I will anyways because as a Kokopelli, we can never get enough love: I'm ridiculously blessed to be able to spend time and sing with the people that I love.

Everytime I am anywhere with Kokopelli, each and every single person just fills my heart with ridiculous amounts of joy and love. Saturday was another one of those days. I honestly can't think of a better way to have started off my day/weekend than to start it off with Kokopelli. Honestly, everytime I'm around them, there's sunshine just beaming out of my rear end. Not kidding.

If I'm that happy to be hanging out with these people, you can't imagine how happy I am to get to be singing with them. Two shows in one day is a lot to take it. Before show number one at 2pm, we all just gathered in our dressing room to unwind and make ourselves look pretty. Swimming in sparkles can only mean ONE thing: It's show time.

Kikimasu's kicked off the first half of the program with, "Sanctus" and "Hine Ma Tov" under the direction of Carmen So, who happens to also be my old piano/voice teacher. Shumayela then sang three numbers which were, "Hey Ho! Nobody's Home", "...into mist with bells" and "Shalom, Pacem, Peace" conducted by Kim Denis. Kokopelli shattered the audience's hearts with, "Stay" then sealed our set with, "The Ground" under the direction of the wonderful Scott Leithead feat. Tova Olsen on
piano, and leaving the rest of the first half of the show to our senior choir, Ã’ran to perform their set which consisted of, "Snow" feat. Russel Whitehead on trumpet, "Nativity" and "Glory To God" conducted by Katy Skinner.

Intermission: My former teacher, aunt, uncle and two baby cousins came to the afternoon show! And my cousins even brought me up some flowers which was just absolutely sweet of them...I didn't even have a solo though, so I kind of felt bad that I was the only one in the choir who received flowers. But it was so nice to be able to see my favourite two little Ukraisians again.

The second half of the program had Ã’ran performing an absolutely incredible version of, "Ave Maria" then finished their set with, "O Magnum Mysterium" then handed it back to our baby choir. Kikimasu's sang three numbers that being, "Yultide Memories", "Ching-A-Ring Chaw" and "When In Dreamland" conducted by Carmen So feat. Erin Craig on piano. Shumayela sang, "Two Latvian Carols" and "Northern Lights" conducted by Kim Denis, featuring Tova Olsen on drums. Kokopelli quickly filed on stage and performed, "Tabula Rasa" and once again killed everyone off by singing, "Get Me Through December" arranged by our own Jennifer McMillan feat. Bryan LeGrow on piano and Michael Lowings on violin. I could swear that if you didn't cry during either, "Stay" or "Get Me Through December" ...or BOTH, you're not even human. If I wasn't on that stage trying to sing and hold it together at the same time, I would be flooding the church in my own tears. Anyways, back to the last little bit of the program. Ã’ran was back on stage, joining Kokopelli for a wild performance of, "Alleluya Sasa!" feat. Garth Prinsonsky as soloist, Bryan LeGrow, Tova Olsen, Sidney M'Sahel and Eliot Howard on percussion. Drums are still pounding in my head today. But I loved learning and performing that one. Afterwards, Kiki's, Shumies, Koko's and Ã’ran joined forces for, "Joy To The World" feat. Russel Whitehead on trumpet and Tova Olsen on organ, as the finale piece... Ha! Joined forces... I make a classic Christmas song sound so difficult.

That was our order for the evening show as well. There were a few slight changes in the evening, but that's the jist of our performances.

In between the performances, Kokopelli completely INVADED Boston Pizza on Jasper Avenue. We felt and still feel really bad about it...something tells me we should have called them first. Unfortunately, none of us really realized that the whole choir would all end up there at once. We also flooded into Starbucks after dinner...that's 2 for Kokopelli. But hey, great minds think alike...especially on show days! I'd say we had a pretty incredible day on and off stage.

We all got recordings of our performances from Scott Rollans last night and I choked up when I heard how beautiful we sounded...no wonder people in the audience were bawling. We were just incredible and we touched so many lives once again. My iPod is bound to break any day now due to me over-playing, "Stay", "Get Me Through December" and "The Ground" ...WE JUST SOUND TOO GREAT. I have to say the only frustrating thing is that when you're listening to the recording and you're mesmerized by the sound...and then SOME JERK in the audience just blows that moment by hacking up his lungs. Then everyone else thought that since one guy is going at it, it would be okay to do so as well. Well you know what?! YOU COMPLETELY DESTROYED OUR PERFORMANCE. I could SCREAM.

I'd say this one suits exactly what I just talked about

Also, as much as we all adore cute babies and energetic toddlers, we don't enjoy them so at choral concerts. Seriously they are way too young and hyper to really sit and understand anything, so please, hire a babysitter or stay home - as a kindness to them, to the audience, and to the PEOPLE PERFORMING. Sorry, but it is SUPER distracting. Now that I just got that out there, that was a part of my my fun, exciting, joyful weekend! ...It makes me wish I could just live every single day of my life like that.

I'm ridiculously sad that rehearsal is cancelled for today... I'm forced to wait another two days to recieve new music and to see everyone again. Seriously, I'm still wondering why we don't all just live together already. How easy would all of our lives be?

-chantalnguyen

12.10.2011

Christmas...Koko Style!

Today is the BIG day! It's show time! But before I hit the road, it was ugly sweater day at our dress rehearsal last night and I just wanted to share how us Koko's get ready for the holiday season...

Leah H, "twerking"

Elise H. as our Christmas, "Ho" ...I'm always fascinated by her fasion choices.


Leah V. and Leah H. They're always so cheery!
Leah V. Michelle N. and Lisa D. in their "ugly" sweaters...it looks more cute rather than ugly.

Emily P.
Emily P. and Lisa D.

Emily P. Lisa D. and Michelle L. (Michelle L. is my "kitchen-lady" buddy)

Erik and Lisa Dolinsky

That was a part of our wonderful dress rehearsal last night. Can't wait for our performances today!

-chantalnguyen

12.09.2011

Tonight...

you've seen my good side. but most importantly, you've seen me at my worst.
no matter what i do to try to ignore you, you always tear those walls down and try to comfort me instead of letting me push you out of my life. im definitely not the prettiest person and most certainly not the happiest person to be around all the time. but you see past that and you bring out the best in me. you turn me into the person that i want to be. you've made me cry. but you make me laugh. you make me smile. you make me happy. tonight, i know for sure that i should never let friendships like this go. even if all we're ever going to be is "just friends", im keeping you for life.


-chantalnguyen

PS This will be the first and very last mushy blog I ever write in my life.

i've been to the mountain, left my tracks in the snow

It was my birthday last Saturday. No, I'm not going to tell you how old I turned but I can say that it was the nicest birthday that I've had in years. For one thing, I didn't have a show that landed on my birthday this year, (thank freaking Jesus) two, I'm so glad that I got to actually spend time with my family that came down from Cold Lake just to see me and three, it was a day where I actually got to just relax for once.

For the past week, I've been just miserable beyond belief. From going to shows to my birthday to rehearsals to preparing for performances and a million other things, I have just been STRESSED out. Throw Christmas gift shopping on top of all of that too. Oh yeah, Christmas shopping sure is fun...who doesn't love an overcrowded mall and scrambling to grab that last thing on the shelf before that other bitch gets it? No but seriously, Christmas shopping is always best when done early.

I'd have to say that the thing I stressed the most about this past week was the Ross Sheppard Winter Concert that as many of you know, happened on Tuesday night. It was their first performance of the season and my first time sitting in a concert directing. (For Shep Singers) Holy hell, I was just a nervous wreck. But what did I really worry about anyways? They all did fantastic.

Ross Sheppard's annual Big Band Dinner and Dance is tonight though. My singer's soundcheck was scheduled for 2pm. At lunch I got them all warmed up and sent them on their way to the Aviation Museum on Kingsway Ave...my girls ended up coming back to the school 45 minutes later, upset and crying. I understand how stressful getting ready for performances can be. Especially when the sound check went horribly. It's fricken MISERABLE when nothing goes right. I love them with all of my heart, so then that situation caused me to stress and worry once again and we ended up running our "trouble" songs through once. Once was enough. I'm still so bummed out about not being about to attend Big Band to see them sing due to my own mandatory dress rehearsal, but I had faith in them and surely enough, my inbox was filled with positive text messages about how wonderful they sounded...you don't even know how relieved I feel right now.

My Shep Singers (from L to R) ShelbyLynn, Michelle, Leah, Bailey, Lexi and Joanna performing at Ross Sheppard's annual Big Band Dinner and dance

Now all I'm pretty much left with to worry about is Kokopelli's two big concerts (WinterSong) tomorrow at 2pm and 7pm which I'm actually also super excited for. It's been a lot of work...we have definitely been kicking our asses extremely hard and it's time to just let our hard work pay off. It also occured to me how funny it is when you work so hard at something, you feel the rush and you're living in the moment, then suddenly you realize that it goes by all too quickly. Next thing I know, we're going to be doing our Stories concert in February then we're on tour for the next three months after that. Everything goes by all too quickly. I cherish every living moment I get with the people that I love. Whether these are good moments or bad, these are the best times of my life and I intend to make the most out of it.

-chantalnguyen

12.08.2011

for fear of what you might do i say nothing but stare at you

Have you ever loved someone so much, it just hurts? You can't even describe the pain you feel inside.

What hurts the most is being in love for the first time in your life. What hurts the most is loving someone and knowing they don't feel the same about you. Instead, the spend the time you think of them, thinking of someone else and, "talking non-stop" to somene half a million miles away. What hurts the most is being so insanely head over heels in love with someone and they can't even see it. They don't see you, no matter how had you try to show them. Why can't they just see and appreciate the person standing right in front of them? What hurts the most is when you get the butterflies in your stomach when you see them and you're happy to spend time with them...and then all they do is talk about the other person. It's really unbearable to listen to. But you listen anyways. What hurts the most is when they talk about how much they like someone else but touch you and hug you, making you think they like you too when they really don't. You should have seen it coming. He's girl-crazy. He likes anything with two legs and evidently enough, tits. He even lied to you. You believed him. Your heart is shattered. Torn. Broken. Damaged. You don't care. You keep telling yourself that you still have a chance...

They say that love is blind. It's true. You ignore what they say. You ignore the tears you shed when you're alone. You ignore your worn-out, tired, aching heart. You ignore your feelings. You ignore your sanity all for him.
He told me that he likes this girl...what the Hell? Didn't you tell me you hated this girl like a month ago? Make up your mind! Well if you like her so much, keep your hands to yourself and stop touching me you asshole. I seriously want to just tear off your head and kick it all the way to... Oh, I don't know, select your country of choice. Ukraine? Okay. Anyways, this girl is coming to Edmonton to visit in January. Funny thing is that I woudn't be at all jealous or hurt if she was actually pretty. Never in my life have I ever been jealous when a boy likes a girl who is far prettier than I am. Or even nicer than I am. I never have a problem with that. But this is a huge slap in the face for me because a) she's butt ugly b) I don't mean to brag but at least I'm thin c) we didn't get along at all when we met at an event that took place approximately a month ago.
I'm trying really hard to remember what the kid I mentored said about wanthing the Shark's plane to crash...I can't believe I yelled at him for that. Because now, I hope her plane crashes. And explodes. Everywere.
" I'm going to make sure that I take both my hands on top of your head and drown you in international waters so no one can fucking find you ever again! ...Are you drowning?! Fucking SUPER." - Jenna Marbles
I'll be damned if I ever ended up anywhere with her. I will make sure to just knock her out cold or something and throw her back at the Vancouver airport. She can stay there. Forever. Or I can just do what Jenna Marbles wants to do. Just drown that bitch. Drown...bitch. Okay, I'm done.

For everyone who's loved a person who doesn't love you back...you know how it is.

-chantalnguyen

Hugs&Kisses...I love you all

You have no idea how happy and proud of a person I am today. After the Shep Winter Concert lon Tuesday night, I finally know how my conductors/directors feel after such good performances as I am still on cloud nine.

Shep Chorus and Shep Singers...I can't even find the words to describe how insanely proud I am of you guys. I was so nervous before the show and after? I was so blown away. I am so proud to call you mine. You're my pride and joy and I'm so blessed to have each and every one of you in my life.

Shep Chorus: I think I scared them all shitless the very first rehearsal as I was just sitting there on the conductor's chair, eyeing them all down...I still do that...but I'm sure that they're all used to me by now. I know I'm slightly tough on them and I work them all hard but as any director, it's because I want them to be the best you can be. Up until this day, I hope none of them really hate me. I want to get to know all of them so much more and want them all to get to know me! (Come talk to me, I swear, I don't actually bite.)

Always know that I am always here and willing to help you and be your friend. Congratulations on last night's performances. You all did me proud...now WORK HARDER. We've still got an extremely long way to go!

To my Beautiful Six (Shep Singers): Where do I even start? G. Maluzynsky had left me to hand pick these girls back in September myself. Did I make the right decisions? You BET your asses I did. I am SO ridiculously privileged to be working with them and getting to know them(and everyone else) this year. They always make my days, even my week much brighter and my heart melts every single time I hear them sing.

I love how we can always tell eachother things; about how we feel. I love how we can always share a good story and a good laugh and even a good cry at times. (I always start it for some odd reason...) I love how we're all so close to one another. I love how friendships always blossom from even the strangest of situations. I love how we're like family. I love you girls so much. Keep up your hard work and keep making me super proud.

My lovely six at having the annual traditional pre-concert dinner at BP's

Not only did the performers surprise me with their outstanding performance but they made a speech for me and brought me a beautiful bouquet of flowers! ...That was SO UNCALLED FOR. I AM SO MAD AT THEM! They actually made me cry in public. I'm was and am still so touched. That was very thoughtful of them to do that for me, although they seriously didn't have to. But since they did...I would like to brag about it!

Here are the comments they wrote in my card:

"Thankyou for everything, we love you!" -Bailey W

"Hey Chantal! It's been an amazing period of time singing with you! You have such a beautiful voice and you are such a beautiful person. Thankyou SO MUCH for sticking with us :) Love you always!" -Joanna C

"Thankyou for everything, Chantal! It's been so much fun working and singing with you!" -Michelle T

"You are amazing. Where would we be without you? I don't know. Thanks for all your help. You are a wonderful friend!" -Leah M

"We love you!" -Lexi S

"Chantal,
Thankyou so much or always being here. And thankyou for being my friend. You're incredible and ust so wonderful. I love you so much." -Lyndsay B

"Chantal,
Thanyou so much for being there not only for the [Shep] Singers, but the Chorus as well. I love that we get to share our progress with such a lovely girl. Over the past few months, you've become more than just a teacher but a friend too. We're blessed to have ou as a member of our singers family.
Love&such" -ShelbyLynn C

Thankyou for making my life just so easy when I am around you guys. I am so blessed that I get to watch you all grow as young musicians day by day. I love you all. AND SERIOUSLY. NO MORE FLOWERS AND SPEECHES. I REFUSE to cry in public a second time!

-chantalnguyen

12.04.2011

What Is Music To You?

Music is the love I feel from my wonderful friends and family. Music is the gentle crisp fall breeze, and music is the crinkling of the autumn leaves and the ice breaking underneath my feet when I walk outside. Music is the warm scarf I wrap around my neck and the gloves I put on my hands. Music is that moment in the song when everything goes quiet and you can hear a pin drop. Music is when a group of passionate, loving people get together and share together - It may be a song, or a story or a smile or a laugh or even a good cry. Music is the song most played on your iTunes. Music is hating someone's guts so much, you want to kick them in the face. Music is being proud of who you are. Music is being proud of your accomplishments. Music is loving yourself. Music is being so insanely, head over heels in love with someone. Music is when that person kisses you and the whole world just goes away. Music is holding hands and going for a walk. Music is that thing that moves you to take action to move forward - to do the right thing. Music is when your heart skips a beat. Music is when you get goose bumps all over your body from just one note. Music is sitting around a kitchen table with your whole family having the most random conversations. Music is sitting with a friend for hours, once every week at a coffee shop sharing life together. Music is bawling your eyes out and collapsing into the arms of someone who you know is always there for you . Music is when your phone goes off and you get instant butterflies hoping its that ONE person... Music is the first time you call someone. Music is fighting with someone. Music is fighting with the world. Music is making up after a fight. Music is telling someone you love them. Music is just sitting and listening when someone needs it. Music is hugging someone and never wanting to let go. Music is having those people in your life that are never allowed to leave because they help you keep your sanity. Music can be anything. Music is...LIFE.



 Music is my life. What's it to you?

-chantalnguyen

12.01.2011

Letter To EMHA

A lot of people don't know this about me, but aside from being a singer, I'm also a hockey fanatic. Why? I'm a hockey sister. My younger brother, Bryan Nguyen currently plays for the North Seera Hockey Club after making a switch from the Brave Raiders Hockey Organization. Of course he still has friends back there and I did mentor some of his former team mates from Braves, who I happen to also be very proud of today. So on Friday November 25th 2011 Bryan asked if we could go see his friends play - that being the Bantam Brave Raiders (NE132) vs. the KC(104) Sabres.

This is just a part of the letter that I wrote to the president of EMHA the following day...without swearing. (Shocker):

"...The entire time I sat watching this game, I noticed how unfair the reffing was. I witnessed headshots, cross-checking, CFB's and spearing from even right under their noses, and yet none of those calls were made against the KC Sabres. Of course when important calls aren't being made some players believe they have all the power in their end and start to abuse it and evidently enough, they start to abuse players from the opposing team.

Approximately ten minutes into the third period, two players from KC simultaneously boarded a Brave Raider's player. He was down, RIGHT IN FRONT of the referee for over ten seconds and still, the ref did not blow the whistle. Instead, he walked over the boy, continued on in the game and skated to the opposite end of the rink. This is when I feel so deeply for the Brave's coach. When the parents were too rowdy in order to grab the referee's attention, the head coach came off from the bench to assist his hurt player. What kind of person orders anyone to just, "remove the kid" from off of the ice when he is clearly hurt and can't move? I'm afraid some of these referees know little, or nothing about spinal cord injuries. In my opinion, anyone who wants to ref any sport should be more well educated on injuries...and well, how to ref, really.
If this infuriated me, I can't imagine how livid any of the parents who are concerned about their child must feel. In this short period of time watching this all unfold, I praise the Raider's coach for his care and concern towards not only the injured, but even standing up for his players as they are still only thirteen/fourteen year old kids... Many of us tend to forget that hockey players are only children. An ambulance was called immediately as this player could not move. The head coach held his injured player's head and wrapped him in blankets; a standard procedure to keep him from going into shock.

As this was all happening, chatter and laughter between the referees of last night's game and the KC Sabres were STILL going on. And to the KC Sabres coach? I'd say teach their players a little more about respect. It's one thing to holler at another player on the ice, it's another thing to be poking fun at one who is injured. I suppose Kyle's death didn't make a strong enough impact on public, did it?

I can't help but say how disappointed at I am at the situation. All I can say is that if some of this poor-quality reffing continues, pray to God that another loss in the hockey community, doesn't happen.

Chantal Nguyen"

Sitting at the Braves/KC game last Friday night, I was completely shocked and disgusted at the reffing, at how rowdy the parents are up in the stands and how the KC coach treated his players and how the players treated one another. Calm down and play hockey. That's what you're there for. I find it really sad that hockey was once a sport in which required a tremendous amount of talent, now turned into one of the most violent sports because of the idiots who think it's hilarious to deliberately hurt someone.

It really hasn't been a great year for the hockey world. We lost three great NHL players, an entire PLANE of professional hockey players, two from Edmonton that had passed away recently (Patrick Steel, Kyle Fundytus) and then SSAC's AA team bus rolls over on highway 16 and sends six people to hospital. This teaches us to cherish life as it is and I can't begin to stress enough to everyone to be appreciative for what you have, and for the people you have in your life. Tell your friends and your family that you love them as often as you can because you never know when you're going to miss the opportunity to even tell them goodbye.

PS The next kid that makes fun of an injured player...or any person, for that matter, I will make sure I punch you unconscious and then maybe you'll get the message...after you wake up. And if you make another smart-ass remark about an injured player, you better make sure I'm not around to hear it. Or else I'll blog about you.

-chantalnguyen

Maintaining a Healthy Level of Insanity

This was sent to me by my mom and I thought I'd share with everyone else. Hope it makes your day a little brighter! Happy first day of December!

To Maintain A Healthy Level Of Insanity:

1. At Lunch Time, Sit In Your Parked Car With Sunglasses on and point a Hair Dryer at Passing Cars. See If They Slow Down.

2. Page Yourself Over The Intercom. Don't Disguise Your Voice!

3. Every Time Someone Asks You To Do Something, ask If They Want Fries with that?

4. Put Decaf In The Coffee Maker For 3 Weeks . Once Everyone has Gotten Over Their Caffeine Addictions, Switch to Espresso.

5. In the Memo Field Of All Your Checks, Write ' For Marijuana.

6. Skip down the hall Rather Than Walk and see how many looks you get.

7. Order a Diet Water whenever you go out to eat, with a serious face.

8. Specify That Your Drive-through Order Is 'To Go'.

9. Sing Along At The Opera.

10. Five Days In Advance, Tell Your Friends You Can't Attend Their Party Because You have a headache.

11. When The Money Comes Out The ATM, Jump up and down screaming: 'I Won! I Won!'

12. When Leaving the Zoo, Start Running towards the Parking lot, Yelling 'Run For Your Lives! They're Loose!'

13. Tell Your Children Over Dinner, 'Due To The Economy, We Are Going To Have To Let One Of You Go.'

And The Final Way To Keep A Healthy Level Of Insanity :

14. PICK UP A BOX OF CONDOMS AT THE PHARMACY, GO TO THE COUNTER AND ASK WHERE THE FITTING ROOM IS!

FORECAST FOR TONIGHT: DARK

-chantalnguyen